18 Things About Being 18

Last Month I turned 19, and hopefully I have learned at least one good thing per year. So here are 18 things I learned and wish I knew before being 19.

Midlife Crisis Captured through life.

1. Just because you have a problem doesn't mean that it is the end of the world. Life will go on. And while it is totally fine to stay in bed once in a while and wallow in your pity, you shouldn't use it as an excuse to never move around.
2. But seriously. Get up, and go outside. Tumblr and blogger will be there when you get back. And even if you can't get your mind offline, use tumblr outside. The fresh air will do you good.
3. While your parents know what is best for you, they aren't living your life. Making your parents proud is a good thing however draw the line when they start to live through you. Sometimes you need to learn for yourself. 
4. Friends will come and go. Don't try to tie down the people you want in your life. Sometimes, people are only there to teach a lesson for a small point and time and they the will move on. Yes it will hurt. But you can grow from it.
5. Stay up late. Not everything revolves around school. It is okay to skip school or homework one in a while to do something cool. Not only will it be something to tell the grandkids but a different experience can really enrich your life.  
6. But at the same time, get some sleep. Not only will you be in a better mood, but you will also be able to soak in all the experiences that life has to offer better. 
7. You don't always have to go out. Building a fort and watching netflix is just as good as going out and partying with your friends. 
8. Find yourself. Life isn't linear, sexuality isn't always straight. You don't have to go straight to college after high school. There are programs and other options for you. Take up anything you can.
9. Don't go to a college because your s/o is there. Trust me, it might not even last. Go to a college that fits you not them.                    

                            
 10. Value your family. You will hate them. You will love them. But in the end, the probably want what is best for you. Your time with them isn't forever.
11. Never go to sleep angry at someone. Just don't. It isn't good for anyone involved. When you can work it out, so you can leave on a better note.
12. Yes, you do want that side order of fries. Enjoy the yummy things.
13. Its okay to show emotions. Crying can be cleansing. Laughter is the best medicine. You don't need to bottle things up.
14. No, you don't need those designer jeans.
15. People may underestimate how mature you are. Your problems are valid no matter how much they try to belittle it.

16. Try anything twice. The first time you try something, it will probably end up badly because you won't know what you are doing. The second time you try something you will have more an idea of what you have to do and can experience things they way it is suppose to be experienced.
17. Don't upload photos or videos with the intent of hurting someone. Not only does that reflect badly on you. But you will never really know how other people have felt from your actions.
18. Always take time to sit down and reflect on your experiences. Life is equally short as it is long. At the end of the day, as long as you are happy with your life that is all that matters.

xoxo

Cielo